Sexplanations

I've done a lot of videos on blowjobs, but there's always more to give!

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Over a lifetime a person menstruates an average of 14 liters, an upward of 32 liters. That's an incredible amount of blood to manage and this video shares a least a dozen methods to do so.

How do the top five most common drugs affect your sex life? Learn how caffeine, nicotine, cannabis, OTC, and prescription drugs impact sex.

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This episode was inspired by some great conversations I’ve had recently about going to the bathroom and specifically North Carolina’s legislation about public accommodations. I wanted to investigate for myself where bathroom culture started, to consider the historical context and intent of potty politics. I learned so much: the quantity of toilet paper I consume, the practices of other countries, and where bathrooms go their reputation for sites of sex crimes (men have sex with men when homosexuality was illegal). These lessons in particular aren’t in the episode but I mention them because they, like everything I did include, afforded me the knowledge to sexplain that our genitals truly have nothing to do with going to the bathroom except that they carry the urine we expel in them, or as I say in the video that we wipe front to back. My hope is that you continue to research and study bathroom history and politics, that you have curious conversations about the legislation in various states. My hope is that you go to the bathroom where you feel most comfortable and anyone sharing the facility is glad you’re there because they judge your presence on how clean you leave your stalls, not on whether or not they can see your balls.

Before seeking out professional help it can be helpful to determine the duration, context, and frequency of your sexual health challenges. The Three Dimensional Model is a helpful guide for determining how a problem affects you and what direction to take for additional care you deserve.

Hala Ken Telar Juvenil, a youth organization in Tijuana invited me to teach their community about sexuality but I spent most of my trip learning instead. I couldn’t help it. There were so many new experiences to have, so many stories to hear, and people to love. It was one of the best weeks of my life! This video may not encapsulate all of the magic, of course it doesn’t, hopefully though it conveys some of the incredible intimacy I had from participating in all aspects of self and place, because I looked beyond pretty stuff

There’s a Joe DeGeorge quotation going around the internet, “Tonight we feast on the labor of centuries.” Hank Green used it in a vlogbrothers episode and Risa Risarodil made it into artwork. For me, it describes how I feel about Sexplanations’ third anniversary! The reason we get to celebrate is because countless others were curious and brave and resilient. The seven I discuss in this episode are heroes. Heroes refuse status quo. They become the can we need. They go into battle without any intention of turning back. And not even for themselves. They do this for others. So that others in faced with unjust circumstances have access to much better outcomes.

This video is all about Sternberg's Triangular Theory of Love which suggests love is a mixture of three components: intimacy, passion and commitment.

Last week we discussed love, commitment, intimacy, and passion. This week it's all casual encounters. They're not mutually exclusive just different.

In the next few days my grandmother will be turning 80. Before she does though I managed to get an interview with her about sexuality. She speaks about sex education as a child, dating as a college student, the decision to be a wife, birth control and then unexpected parenthood that gave her the opportunity to have sex talks with her own children. Hopefully this conversation encourages you to have conversations of your own with grandparents and elders. They’re important voices in learning about sex!

One of my kids recently taught me about honeypotting and it led to a lot of questions and answers regarding honey in general. This video is the result of a Dr. Doe rabbit hole, falling into investigation after investigation as my curiosity never ends. Honeypotting is deliberately using sex appeal to persuade someone into carrying out a personal or professional agenda. For this episode I put on some fake glasses (no lenses), padded my bra, and caked on the make-up (including red markered lips) to demonstrate.

Body Image is how we see ourselves, accurately or inaccurately. It's also how we relate to the perceptions we have about others. This video brings some awareness to the troubling state of body image in America and offers 10 tips on how to improve body image for ourselves and others.

I just figured out a super affordable way to get my favorite kind of condoms (ONE) and huge sampler packs to try many others. So much excitement!

One third of us will experience sexual abuse at some point in our lives. This episode of Sexplanations aims to increase awareness about the warning signs of sexual abuse in victims and perpetrators so you can look out for them in yourself and others.

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Some sex lessons I've learned from my own body. I experience something like strange discharge or pain and have to learn from the mystery what's going on. I sure didn't learn from high school sex education that condoms may get lost in the vagina or that UTIs are more common after playful sex. Hopefully this video solves some of you mysteries and encourages you to solve others.

This video about the age of consent, specifically one young person's question about whether or not to wait until she reaches to have sex, is complicated. There are many nuances to the law depending on where you live and the law itself can be harmful when it's intent is to help.