Sexplanations

In which Lindsey chats about a bunch of the varied methods for pregnancy prevention.

Sexplanations made a sweatshirt of the many terms we use to describe our sexual and gender identities. This video goes through the ones on the sweatshirt from pomo to fluid. There are many others our there so I hope you stay curious!

In which Lindsey introduces us to a pill that can prevent 90% of HIV transmissions when used properly. Who should use it? Find out.

In which Lindsey shares one guide on how to kiss along with a cross-cultural perspective of how it is certainly not the only way.

In which Lindsey answers your questions about kissing.

In which Elke of Mamalode and Lindsey of Sexplanations answer your sex questions including how to find your sexy, get energy, initiate sex, and bring up lactation play.

It's time to get dance fever with Lindsey! In this episode of Sexplanations, Lindsey talks about Kegels. What they are, how to do them, how to be safe, and why they're awesome!

In which I explore whether or not vaginal orgasms are really a thing and how to orgasm during penetrative sex, in case you were curious.

Today we present: Consent... Not That Complicated!

In this episode of Sexplanations, Lindsey uses her own life experience to talk about how to stay curious!

In which Lindsey shares some gratitude with everyone :)

In which Dr. Doe explains the terrifying nature of sex education in the United States.

In this episode of Sexplanations, Nick says goodbye and we start to prep for new things and it's all gonna be okay. :)

In this episode of Sexplanations, Lindsey chats about Cunnilingus: Oral Sex on a Vulva. Then she, along with helpful hints from the people of Tumblr, Facebook, and Twitter, shares some ideas about how to make it better.

Shower thoughts have become one of my new favorite things as in don’t we know that saying tuna fish is like saying chicken bird and the roof of the mouth is more like the ceiling of your mouth? The internet is alive with these clever messages from the mind. This video is a collection of my very own, Dr. Doe-made sex in the shower, thoughts. ***I wanted to note that the first one actually is from a sexplaneteer who asked a similar question, last year. Matthew (the videographer in training) and I have plans to do a short film/Sexplanations about this very sentiment : I could wear male nipple pasties and go shirtless...

Have you ever wondered how semen really gets out of the body or what's happening when it doesn't?

What does that even mean, coming too quick? Here three suggestions on how to cope with social pressure to come on schedule and a list of tricks if its still your ambition to last longer.

Thank you to everyone for making these two years so special. You've inspired me, educated me, challenged me, supported me, and just made me feel oh so welcome into your lives. Since the traditional anniversary by gifts is cotton, my friends Duncan and Matthew put together this celebratory "Stay Curious" t-shirt to celebrate. And since I get the most energy from talking with all of you, this video is all made up of answers to your questions. Here's to many more years!

The flags are up, the shirts come off; banners, motorcycles, families, music, and pride march down the streets this June in celebration of their LGBT communities. How did these parades come to be? Why now? What was it like before?

I like answering your questions; they're all so good. 20

As requested by our donors, this is an episode on the effects of porn.

There is a lot of confusion about when to get a pelvic exam and what happens when you do. Hopefully this short video clears that up.

While I had Dr. Blake's attention, I took the opportunity to ask him questions about gynecology that many of you have shared with me. These are his responses, answers from someone I respect and appreciate but his is not the only perspective and certainly not all of the information there is to know about your bodies. Stay curious.

If any of these sites were to stop existing I'd be sad, really sad! So I've decided to share with you my favorites while they're still around. Please let me know which other sites are cool too. I'm curious!

An introduction to libido and how it may or may not change depending on the time or your life and what's going on in it!

In light of Laci Green's recent video about sex work, I'm trying to maintain the momentum of discussion and curiosity. This episode does not reflect the current picture of how prostitution exists in most situations. Instead it is a review of the industry in its purest form. Sex (consensual) for compensation (money/trade).

As many of you go back to school, I wanted to share a story from one of my first days teaching human sexuality. It was a lesson in humility, language, and examination. Essentially I learned that the ASL sign for penis isn't a crotch level jack-off motion and that the deaf community needs privacy like hearing community.

This is a quick tutorial in how to use rope to restrain someone's body. I chose to demonstrate Dragonfly Sleeves because this technique is simple, attractive, and very easy to remove.

This video is about one of the first and most interesting things I learned about sexuality.

Human relations can be really confusing especially the violent ones. Why. would. someone. hurt. us? This video is a response to the questions "what happened to me" and "what do I do?" I deliberated for a long time (months) about the steps, how I would organize a linear path to recover from trauma for you. What I decided is that it's not linear. We will each work through our hurtful experiences in unique ways. What I really want you to know are the resources in place to help you do the work. You're not alone. It's not your fault. There is work to be done and your deserving of the extra attention.

Jamison Green recently visited Missoula, Montana to speak at conference on transgender lives which meant I had the special opportunity to sit down with him on the red couch. This video is a excerpt from our time together. I was most impressed by his insights on trans healthcare and his commitment to increase awareness for the longterm safety of all genders.

Learn from sexologist Dr. Lindsey Doe all about the balls, what they're made of, how to care for them, and some of the ways to bring them pleasure. Sexplanations publishes new videos every week so subscribe and stay curious.

I've been asked whether or not people with high sex drives can be in successful relationships with people who have low or no sex drives since the beginning of my sexology journey. I was volunteering for a sex education website at 19 and my supervising editor asked for my thoughts on sex drive-discrepant partnerships. At the time I didn't have solid thoughts about it. I did know that there wasn't a one size fits all conclusion. Also, I knew that calling them "mismatched sex drives" was a big part of the problem. As I developed my understanding of sexuality and worked with people in these dynamics I came to learn that no sex drives or interests are the same. Just as our appetites are nuanced so are our libidos. The trick is not stress or see them as a mis-matching but to gather your wits and solve this like you would any other challenge of individuality. Different religious or political beliefs, different parenting styles, love styles, languages! If there's something workable for your unique relationship -- great! If there isn't that's okay too. Just try not to limit yourself to black and white thinking. Being together sexually or otherwise should always be a choice. Which means detaching from someone because of sexual incompatibility is not failure it is decision making.

Unrequited love -- loving someone without being loved in return. In this video I describe five types of unrequited love and I suggest ways to heal heartache.