Sexplanations

For a long time I had been looking for resources to help pedophiles process their attraction to minors and reduce the likelihood of them perpetrating. Pedophilia is a type of paraphilia. It's not a choice anymore than any other sexual orientation but acting on it has many harmful consequences. This week I learned from a sexpla(i)naut on Patreon about VirPed.org, a website which connects pedophiles to resources and support so they can safely talk out their desires without acting on them. It's a triggering topic, typically fraught with pain but today, I'm overfilled with joy that things can get better for everyone.

How do you overcome the loss of erection when a condom is presented? What are the tricks for getting up, getting one one, and getting off? Why do we lose erections? What options are there for safer sex?

At the very beginning of Sexplanations, eight years ago, I stood in front of a dry erase board in one of the first classrooms I'd ever taught in. It was this delicious experience for me that also that ended up really popularizing Sexplanations. People got to learn for the first time about the clitoral hood, crura, and smegma. They realized how awful so-called sex education is in most of the world and how valuable it can be to stay curious.

Someone asked me once how I determined which topics to cover. I answered that I have all these topics in my mind but one at a time they move to my heart and I get really curious and passionate enough to research and teach -- to sexplain. This is what happened with the registry. There wasn't a personal experience or an audience question, it just shifted from my head to my heart and had to come out.

I'm kind of frazzled in this episode because something unexpected happened. I was planning on reading a book to you that I had gotten from the library but part way through the filming I realized I was not comfortable showing you the content and made this second video to explain why.

I'm curious to hear your reviews and what cool inventions Sexpla(i)nauts come up with to make this product even better. My latest curiosity is whether or not you could safely strap-in a dildo for a receptive form of f**king. Staying curious ;o)