Love and Sex in…

China’s population is currently just over 1.4 billion and with an estimated 180 million single people and a tradition that demands marriage, a substantial dating market has emerged. Love and Sex in China takes us to the singles fairs and matchmaking expos that have become commonplace and where parents often attend to distribute photos of their marriage-eligible children. To be considered marriage-worthy, men need to be financially stable and women need to be under the age of 27 or face life being categorized as “the leftover”. Seventy per cent of Chinese women say they would never marry a man who didn’t have his own property. But with rents being exorbitantly high, most Chinese men can’t afford that option. This has led to the re-emergence of concubines — women who, to meet their needs, are turning to life as an expensive mistress to wealthy men. In return, the concubines need to be entirely available at all times to attend to the whims of their “protectors”.

With a 30 per cent fall in marriages over the past 30 years in Japan and a quarter of 20–30 -year-olds admitting to being virgins, the Japanese birthrate has plummeted. Paradoxically, Japan is also the world’s biggest producer of pornographic films with around 30,000 porn films made in Japan each year. More than half of all unmarried Japanese people do not have friends of the opposite sex. This love crisis has led to armies of young men being hired out to women as rental boyfriends to coach their clients in seduction, love and how to communicate and behave with the opposite sex. Holding hands with a rental boyfriend is acceptable, but sex is strictly prohibited. For men wanting to know what it feels like to have a little more physical contact with women, “Cuddle Cafes” offer menu services from massage (over clothing) to holding a woman closely to putting their head in her lap.

To improve your marriage prospects in some communities in India, you must be considered to have an impeccable reputation, and with 90 per cent of Indian marriages still being arranged, most brides and grooms do not know each other very well before their wedding day. To bridge this information gap, private detectives, including India’s first female detective, Rajani Pandit, have the job of getting the low-down on the character of potential spouses to determine if they are suitable to enter into marriage. Rules of marriage in some parts of India can include a preference of not marrying outside your caste or religion. To step outside these boundaries often leads to couples being subjected to the wrath and sometimes lethal vengeance of their own families. This leads to multi-caste couples running away and turning to “The Love Commandos”, an organisation that shelters and protects just such couples.

Travelling across the United States, a team of journalists delve into the heart of the lives of both couples and singles. This film explores how religion dictates sex and love for many Americans.

Xenia and Kyrill are about to get married and everything from the way the ceremonial bread is broken to their wedding rings leaves no doubt about their future roles. Kyrill’s ring is gold because “the man should shine”, while Xenia’s is silver to represent the woman’s position as serene shadow. “Men are stronger than women, not only physically but also intellectually”, explains Kyrill. Xenia agrees, accepting that if they were ever to disagree, Kyrill would have the final word.

South Korea has the world's lowest fertility rate, with many avoiding marriage or kids due to career pressure. As love fades, cosmetic surgery rises and sex becomes simpler than relationships.

In Dubai, Emiratis hold lavish weddings, while expats follow suit, even as they marry within their communities, and sex outside marriage is illegal, with harsh penalties.

In Mexico, customs regarding sex and love vary from one community to another. Despite the influence of the Catholic religion and family values, young people are challenging taboos and advocating for freedom of morality.